Are you ready to transform women into naughty beasts?

Are you ready to learn how to make a girl horny from the second you meet her till the moment you undress her?

I hope you are ready because what I am going to reveal in this article has the power to take your dating and sex life to a whole new level.

how to make a girl horny

You are a sexual being and she is one too.

The ability to turn women on and to make them beg for your dick is one of the most important skills that a seducer can possibly have.

Overcoming your approach anxiety and learning how to approach women is important to be able to make the first move, but if you can’t drive a woman crazy after you said “hi”, you won’t land in bed with her.

Of course everything would be perfect if it would be as easy to turn on women as it is to turn on a man. Come on, be honest. All a beautiful woman needs to do to drive us out of our minds (in a positive way) is to take her clothes off.

Even though it is definitely not impossible to make a woman horny, taking your clothes off and showing her your six-pack or one-pack is not enough. As men we have to be a bit more creative than that.

How to Make a Girl Horny Within the First Seconds

As a man who is able to make her juices flow you have to be willing to press the right buttons from the moment you are meeting her for the first time. Heck, you can put dirty thoughts in her mind before you even talk to her.

Whenever you get the chance to look a girl deep into the eyes before you even walk up to her, you should take this chance.

Don’t miss out on any chance to show a woman your sexual intention.

As soon as you step out of your apartment you have to see yourself not only as a human being, but also as a sexual being. Forget about being afraid to offend her. Forget about hiding your true intentions, because she could see you as a pervert or a creep. You are a man and you have a dick between your legs. It is not only your job but also your birthright to turn women on from the moment you meet them.

Give Her a Direct and (Slightly) Sexual Compliment

“Hey, do you know where the next post office is?”

“Hey, can I have your female opinion on something?”

Do you think that those are the perfect pick-up lines to transform every dry vagina into a wet lake? I don’t think so. The indirect way of approaching might be better in situations with a lot of social pressure that forces her to react in a politically correct way, but if you want to drive a woman wild within the first few seconds of meeting her, you have to go all in.

Forget about indirect pick-up lines and focus on words that turn women on. Women want guys who are confident and who go for what they want without apologizing for it. They want to feel desired by men, not by boys.

A guy who asks for a female opinion doesn’t make her heart thump and he also doesn’t make her pussy vibrate. The only way to show her right from the start that you are such a confident and unapologetic guy is by approaching her with a direct compliment.

The key to a wet pussy is to give her a compliment that shows that you are sexually interested in her.

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Let’s have a look at some examples that make her want to kiss you straight away:

“You are looking amazing”

This innocent compliment can be really powerful if you combine it with direct eye contact. She will know that you want her.

“I am really attracted to you”

The word attractive is even more sexual than beautiful.

“I don’t want to offend you but you have the most amazing ass I have ever seen.”

For some women this compliment is a bit too much, while others will love you for being so ballsy. If you say this in a calm and relaxed way, she will already think about how you massage her ass.

Your Body Communicates Dominance and Attraction

She giggles, she smiles and if you used the last compliment that I listed she might even pretend to be offended while she can’t stop thinking of all the pleasurable things you could do with her ass. Now you have her full attention.

A popular mistake that some guys tend to make after they proved how ballsy they are is to switch into wimp-mode and to have a nice conversation. That’s not how you arouse a woman.

how to not make a girl horny

“So you are actually telling me that you think that the Teletubbies are better than Sesame Street?”

In order to arouse a woman you have to show her your intention while you are talking with her, no matter how innocent the topic you are talking about is. Women absolutely love dominant men.

Your body language has to reveal that you are after her pussy and not after a platonic friendship.

Follow the body language tips in this article and she will get aroused by simply looking at the way you stand.

If you combine a confident body language with the determination to win every staring contest that you have, her knees will get weak right after you said your name.

The First Handshake Causes the First Spark

One important aspect of learning how to make a girl horny is to learn how to touch her the right way. If you think that the bedroom is the right place to start touching a girl, you are about four hours too late. Touching her when you go for the kiss is also way too late. It all starts within the first ten seconds of meeting her.

You said your compliment and she smiled. What do you do next? You tell her your name while you are inviting her to shake your hand. This handshake usually lasts for a couple of seconds, but it has the power to influence the rest of your interaction.

Don’t just shake her hand as if you are in a business meeting.

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Take her hand, grab it soft and gentle before you move it up and down. Don’t break your eye contact while you are holding her hand. Make her feel the sexual tension. Once it is time to let go off her hand you do it very slow.

Remember, the purpose of this handshake is not to show her that you are the boss, but to let her know how good it feels to get touched by you. If you do the handshake right, she can’t wait for the hug after you took her number.

Taking Her Number is a Reason to Touch

Turing a woman on while you are taking her number is actually really easy. Don’t just stand there and give her your phone as if you are afraid that she has some contagious disease. Once it is time to pull out your phone and to let her type in her number, you should be ready to position yourself right next to her.

The way you are touching her now appears unintended and natural.

While you are giving her your phone your fingers will touch her fingers. While she types in her number you stand so close to her that your arm touches her arm. You obviously want to see what she is typing in and you can’t see that while standing far away.

What I like to do in this situation is to say “wait, your name was Laura, right?”

While I say this I smile at her and lay my hand on her shoulder or on her lower back. All those subtle touches make her more comfortable in your presence and they also put some naughty thoughts in her mind that weren’t there before you touched her.

I am not the only one who knows about the power of touching. Marni knows it too:

The Hug Prepares Her for More

What do you do right after you took her number?

You promise her that you will call her and you give her a hug. Don’t even think about shaking her hands a second time. At this stage she already knows that she might end up in bed with you.

Going back to a formal level would erase all the naughty thoughts you just put in her brain.

Make sure that she remembers you by hugging her like her future lover, not like a friend. The way you hug her should communicate safety, comfort, intimacy and sexual interest.

It is absolutely okay to give her a kiss on the cheek while you are hugging her. No matter if you kiss her or not, make sure that you press your body against hers and that you hold her for a moment before you let go.

Just don’t make one of those friend-zone-hugs where you stand two meters away from her while you desperately try to put your hands on her shoulder. As a guy who knows how to make a girl horny you must be willing to let her experience how it feels to press her breasts against your chest.

How to Make a Girl Horny During the Date

Did you shake her hand and hug her as if you were already her lover?

Then you can assume that she is waiting by the phone until you finally call her.

She is ready for her first date with you. Now it is on you if you decide to take her to a nice restaurant, talk about the weather, politics and the Ukraine conflict and if you then get rejected when you try to go for the kiss. You can do that, but if you want to make her horny you shouldn’t.

It is your job to lead her through the whole dating process while making her think about how it would be to kiss you, how it would be to suck your dick and how it would be to feel you inside of her.

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That awkward facial expression when she thinks about sucking your dick

If you do everything right she won’t be able to think about anything non-sexual, even if you talk about the most innocent topics in the world. Every time you are talking about a long vacation or a hot day she will think about jumping on you.

Use a Seductive Language (Deep and Slow)

How to make a girl horny while you talk with her during a date? Using the right tonality and speed is absolutely essential. If you sound like Mickey Mouse on helium who speaks faster than Eminem when he raps double time, you will have a hard time to arouse women with your voice.

Be careful to talk in a calm and slow way and don’t forget to hold eye contact. A man who talks slow shows that he is relaxed and confident in the situations he is in.

A guy who speaks fast and in a high tone shows that he is really uncomfortable right now.

As much as I hate the movie 50 Shades of Grey, I can’t deny that there is a reason why millions of women get wet when they even think about this film. I watched half an hour and I honestly have to say that it was the most boring movie I have ever seen, but there is one particular scene that shows very clearly how effective it is to speak slow and with a lot of pauses:

Get Really Close When You Talk to Her

You can’t really build up sexual tension if you sit opposite to her and talk loud enough that the waitress hears every word you say. Make sure that you sit next to her and not opposite to her, even if that requires getting a chair from the table next to you.

Once you are sitting next to her it is a lot easier to touch her.

An extremely easy way to trigger sexual arousal is to get really close to her when you are talking to her. You can make the conversation even more exciting by saying things like…

“I have to tell you a secret…”

“Do you know what I am thinking right now?”

When she then asks you what secret you want to tell her or what you are thinking right now, you lean forward and whisper “you are so sexy” in her ear. Try it. Her red face will prove how powerful this is.

Talk about Sexual Topics

Getting really close to her and whispering naughty words in her ear is not the only thing you can do to drive her wild. Some guys are afraid to bring up sexual topics, because they don’t want to offend the sweet innocent angel who sits next to them.

What if I told you that this sweet innocent angel who looks at you with her cute puppy eyes has done everything from oral to anal with the last guy who had the balls to talk about sexual topics with her?

If you have never tried it you will be shocked at how excited women get once you bring up the naughty stuff.

hot aphrodisiac

“Can we please talk about anal fisting again before I choke on this aphrodisiac?”

Women love sex and they are instinctively attracted to guys who are confident talking about it. If you are a guy who can confidently talk about sex she will instinctievely assume that you are also confident in the bedroom. Just make sure that not everybody is hearing what you are saying, especially when you are in a country like Thailand where people usually don’t talk about sex at all.

Ask her about her favorite position, about her craziest sexual experience and about her wildest fantasies. Wrap this topic in a fun, exciting and arousing burrito and she will fantasize about sucking your burrito.

Talk About Non-Sexual Topics in a Sexual Way

Just because being confident enough to talk about sexual topics is important if you want to learn how to make a girl horny, doesn’t mean that you can’t trigger a strong desire without verbalizing your naughty thoughts.

You can talk about the most innocent topic and still create an arousing atmosphere by saying it in the right way and by using your body to underline your true intentions.

Talking like that pseudo Barney Stinson from 50 Shades of Grey is one way to do that.

Another way is to hold her hands, to touch her leg and to slide your fingers up her legs, while you are talking about traveling, shopping and her college major. She might start to stutter right after she feels your fingertips on her leg. That’s a good sign.

Kiss Her with Passion

The date comes to an end. You already made her horny as hell and all she can think of is tasting your lips.

What do most guys do in this situation?

They tell her that they really enjoyed the evening and that they would love to see her again. Then they give her a hug and say “goodbye”.

If you do that you are responsible for a poor little girl who has to destroy one of her most expensive vibrators.

You left her alone and she has to please herself the whole night to get you out of her head. That’s not fair.

By now you know how to make a girl horny during a date and if you have followed all the steps I talked about, her panties are already soaking wet. Not looking her deep into the eyes before you kiss her with passion is the rudest thing to do.

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I said with passion goddammit!

How to kiss a girl passionately?

Read this article and you’ll know what you have to do. Once she feels your tongue inside her mouth she can’t wait to feel it on her vagina.

How to Make a Girl Horny Till You See Her Again

If you have followed all the previous advice, chances are high that you end up in bed with her on the first date.

What if she made a bad experience with the last guy she slept with and it is too early for her?

What if she is on her period and she is afraid of transforming your bedroom into a horror movie set?

Then you have to wait until the second date before you see how qualified Mother Nature is as a designer. In the meantime you shouldn’t just wait passively. Take action and make sure that she also destroys her second vibrator during the time she has to wait until she sees and feels you again.

Say Goodbye like a Lover

What do you do after you kissed her?

You can either leave her directly after you stopped kissing her OR you can make it even more exciting by leaving her with a tiny sentence that won’t make her forget you, even if it takes more than a month until you see her again.

Once you are finished with your tongue wrestling you can use the whisper technique a second time.

Take her head in your hands, kiss her on her forehead and whisper in her ear that you can’t wait till you see her again.

Now is the right time to leave.

She will stand there with shivering knees and wet eyes while her heart is dancing Limbo.

Send the Right Texts at the Right Time

I assume that you won’t just leave her without at least texting once between your first date and your second date.

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The fact she makes when she realizes that she has to buy another vibrator.

I don’t doubt that you leave such a powerful impression that she is going to think about you every day. Nevertheless, it’s always good to know how to increase her attraction for you by sending her the right texts.

“Seeing you today was great. I can’t wait until I feel your lips again.”

“Wow, what did you do to me ;-)”

“And I thought that you were a good girl…”

Short texts like that have the power to make her re-experience all the beautiful things that you did with her during the first date.

She will remember your words, your touch, the secret you whispered in her ear and the way you kissed her. She will think about you whenever she masturbates.

Give Her a Hint for the Next Time

One optional thing I really like to do is to use the last text message I send her before our next date to give her a little hint. I want to let her know what she can expect on the second date…but only roughly.

Revealing too much would kill the anticipation but revealing enough to make her curious will turn her on.

She will think about everything she could possibly expect, without exactly knowing what it will be. Let her know what feelings the next date will provide her with.

“Make yourself beautiful. Tomorrow I take you to an amazing place“ is a good text if you take her to a romantic lounge.

“I hope you are sporty, because tomorrow we are going to sweat” is a good text if you take her to the climbing hall.

“I hope you are ready for an adventure” is a good text if you take her on a road trip.

Such a text message right before your second date fills the region between her legs with pleasant anticipation.

How to Make Girls Horny in the Bedroom

No matter if you end up at your place after your first date or after your second date, you have to make sure that she will jump on you like a hungry wolf as soon as you enter your apartment. Learning how to make a girl horny in the bedroom is the last stage of your quest.

You have done all the touching, the kissing and maybe even the texting. Now you should finally give her the chance to replace her vibrator with a real dick.

It is obvious that she wants you, otherwise she wouldn’t be at your place.

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She for sure doesn’t come to your place for a back rubbing session

Remember that your goal is to drive her so wild that she’ll eventually take her clothes off before you even enter your bedroom.

What is the first thing you do to come one step closer to this goal?

Make Her Feel Safe in Your Arms

What most guys do once they are in their apartment is to start a conversation, to make her a coffee or even worse, to switch on the TV. Unless you watch an erotic movie with her or the coffee you have is an undetected aphrodisiac, those things will only decrease her horniness level.

As a guy who wants to learn how to make a girl horny you don’t even think about turning on the TV. The only thing that you want to turn on is her. Continue your passionate kissing is good, but you could combine your kisses with one powerful aspect that a lot of guys neglect.

Every woman fantasizes about being taken by a dominant and strong man, but at the same time they only want to live out this fantasy with a guy who makes them feel safe.

Unless a woman feels safe she won’t allow herself to reach the peak of her arousal.

Give her this feeling of safety and security by looking her deep into the eyes while you kiss her, by hugging her while you are kissing her, by softly running your fingers through her hair and by holding her head with your hands.

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Hold her, make her feel safe and secure and let the wine…uhm your smile do the rest

All those individual steps help her to feel the necessary security that allows her to let her vagina do what her vagina wants to do.

Start With a Sensual Massage

Now you can decide if you want to undress her or if you want to introduce a passionate night with a sensual massage. I would say that it depends on the situation if you should go with or without the massage.

If you already make out like crazy while you are ripping your clothes off, a massage might even kill the mood. Then you should directly go to the bedroom. If you, however, kiss her softly and the atmosphere is very romantic, a sensual massage can be exactly what she needs to lose all her inhibitions.

In case you are interested in massaging her to an orgasm, you can have a look at this article.

Undress Her Slowly, VERY Slowly

With or without massage, at some point you should make sure that she gets rid of all her clothes.

It is time to unwrap your present.

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Take your time and enjoy every second of it…

What most guys do is to undress a woman in the same way as they unwrapped their Christmas presents when they were five years old. They nervously kiss her while they try to open her belt with their shivering fingers.

I think I don’t have to tell you that this is anything but arousing.

A guy who knows how to make a girl horny undresses her slightly different. He does it in the same way as you would open a good wine that you want to look at, smell and enjoy. That’s how you should undress a woman if you want to turn her on.

Transform the unwrapping part into a sensual experience by kissing her lips and her body whenever you take off a piece of clothing. Don’t destroy the pleasant anticipation with nervous fumbling. Calm down and take your time.

Grab Her Ass and Pull Her Close to You

She is naked.

Now it is time to increase the speed and the intensity to make her beg for salvation.

This mixture of slow and intense movements creates a rollercoaster of emotions that drive her vagina insane.

Grab her ass and pull her close to you. Kiss her with such intensity that moaning is the only thing she can do. Now that she feels safe and secure with you (otherwise she wouldn’t be naked) you are allowed to release the dominant sexual being that you truly are.

From this moment on her body is your playground and she wants you to play with it. Kiss her whole body while you are slowly caressing the sensitive area between her legs. Show her that you are ready to lead her to an intense orgasm.

Rise like a Phoenix from the ashes and you will be ready.

Summed Up Wisdom

If you want to learn how to make a girl horny you have to be willing to be sexual from the moment you meet her. Give her a direct compliment and communicate through your body that you are a dominant man and that you are attracted to her. Make use of the situations that allow you to touch her. The handshake, the moment she gives you her number and the hug should prepare her for the next steps.

During the date you can arouse her by talking in a deep and calm voice. You can either talk about sexual topics or you can create sexual tension while you are talking about innocent topics. Just make sure that you sit really close to her. The date should end with a kiss and by saying goodbye like a lover and by sending her the right text messages, she won’t be able to stop thinking about you for one second.

As a guy who learned how to make women horny you can help her to reach the peak of her arousal as soon as you are in your bedroom. Make her feel safe in your arms, massage her a bit and undress her really slowly. Once you did that it is time to increase the intensity and to pull her close to you.

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