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I was friends with benefits with a girl for a total of 5 months (FWB was her idea since she wasn’t looking for a relationship, just something physical, and still isn’t). For the first 3 months its like we were in a real relationship. I got tired of her flaking (she would cancel plans, last minute, about 60% of the time) and told her off 3 months into it. We stopped the pseudo-relationship but went back to just FWB. She broke things off with me 2 weeks ago since I kept pushing for a relationship. I can’t go back to “just being friends” without the benefits part, which is what she wants.

In these past 2 weeks I have done the cardinal sins of: trying to convince her (read: reasoning with her) to take me back, acting clingy/needy, jealous when I thought she was going out with some other guy (which turned out to not be true).

I told her its best if we just stopped talking altogether. It’s been the 3rd day of no-contact from either one of us…I actually would be happy with getting back friends with benefits with her (since the sex was amazing) and I like chatting with her on the phone but I can’t have one without the other. Is there any way to salvage this? (We are co-workers by the way, but our schedules are different and we never have to see one another at work) Thanks for your time.

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